Haha this was a great read. Language is indeed a tool, based on who wields it, it can be used in different ways.
I once had to make a presentation in anthropology class about disease vs sickness vs illness.
I chose a different approach than the one expected from the teacher, I chose to present front the view of a patient who just wanted to get well.
That’s a topic for another day, but you got it, language is a tricky thing.